You want to give your wife a special gift of lingerie, but you don’t want to make the wrong impression. This is a shaky area for men, because they want to spice things up in the bedroom and show their appreciation of a woman’s body but they don’t want her to think the relationship is all about sex. If this describes where you are right now, you have to learn how to give the sexy lingerie in a classy way. It’s all about your approach.

Wrap it Up with Something Nice

Don’t just throw the lingerie in a box and put a bow on it. When she opens it up, there should be something to show that you really put some thought into this gift. The answer is to tuck in a personal note or perhaps something that will signify an insider’s joke between the two of you. There should be something besides this super sexy piece of lingerie.

If you decide to write a note, don’t try to come up with a sappy poem and don’t just copy a quote or poem from the Internet. Just write a short note telling her what you feel for her and what you are hoping for in the future. Giving her this sense of commitment and passion will make the lingerie feel more intimate. This stops it from feeling like a plea for sex.

Timing is Everything

Don’t hand this gift to your wife at a public party, even if it is just people she knows very well. Do this in private so she feels connected to you in an intimate way. She should never feel on the spot to react a certain way. Just do it in private so no one knows but you.

It is also important to time it after you have connected together throughout the evening or day. Don’t just bust out with the box the moment she walks in the door. Let her get comfortable and pull it out when the timing is right.

Make the Effort

Make sure you know what size she wears. Take a peek in her drawer or pick her garments up while she is in the shower. The worst thing you can do is guess on the sizing!

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